18 Realistic Things Everyone Should Do Before Turning 40

#1. Get fired.

Or at least quit a job you hate.

#2. Read every book by your favorite author.

#3. Master something you never learned at school.

A new language, a new skill — start it, stick to it, and master it.

#4. Keep a “win book”.

Write down every accomplishment and success, big or small, to remind yourself of how awesome you are.

#5. Meet your idol.

Okay, so this is a tricky one, but you really should try and contact your hero in some way, because you’ll regret it if you don’t.

#6. Do something you thought impossible.

Run a marathon, write a novel, cycle cross-country — push yourself and achieve something incredible.

#7. Learn to accept rejection.

Don’t dwell on the things you didn’t get; accept rejection with good grace and move onto the next thing. It’s just a blip.

#8. Buy a piece of art you love and display it in your home.

Or, even better, paint something yourself.

#9. Go on a spiritual journey.

Meditate in your garden or go on a pilgrimage (even if you don’t consider yourself “spiritual”) and see what you learn about yourself.

#10. Go on holiday alone.

You don’t have to go far, just be brave and go solo.

#11. Splash out on a super fancy meal — and pay no attention to the price.

#12. Mentor a young person in your profession.

#13. Write a “vision statement”.

List the things you want to achieve to stay motivated and focused (and enjoy crossing them off when they’re done).

#14. Master managing stress.

In a good way.

#15. Pay good fortune forward.

Help out someone who’ll never know you did it (and you don’t have to do this just once, you know).

#16. Perfect a dish.

Have one delicious meal in your chef repertoire that you can whip up with ease.

#17. Go skinny dipping.

#18. And reinvent your look at least once.