It’s never pleasant to question the loyalty of a partner, but if you suspect infidelity, there are two behaviors that may raise red flags.
Let me clarify that these indicators are not definitive proof of cheating. Open communication is crucial, so discussing your concerns with your partner is advisable before making assumptions.
However, many people online agree that certain behaviors can signal potential issues, a topic that has been highlighted by TikToker Fiona, known as @baddgal_fifi.
In a video posted earlier this year, Fiona advised her followers, especially those interested in men, to be aware of a specific red flag she’s identified as potentially problematic.
The clip, which has garnered significant attention with hundreds of thousands of views, highlights two key signs that may suggest your partner exhibits ‘cheater energy’.
Fiona elaborated: “Guys who have cheater energy, meaning they are likely to cheat on you, are what I call DTC, down to cheat.”
She shared that in ‘her experience’, one behavior of men who might be ‘down to cheat’ is that they ‘follow a large number of women they don’t personally know, particularly fitness models’, on Instagram.
“If I see he follows a bunch of fitness girls, DTC,” Fiona commented.
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The second sign Fiona mentioned is ‘opposite but equal’ to the first.
She elaborated: “If he has Instagram and follows every woman he has ever met, even the one who served him at the taco truck, then that’s a sign too. Normal girl, but lots of them.”
“If they have interacted or crossed paths, he likely has her Instagram, which indicates DTC.”
Fiona’s points resonated with some viewers, who claimed she was spot on.
“The following every girl he crosses paths with is so real,” one viewer stated, while another commented: “Always check their follow list. It reveals everything you need to know! Run.”
However, on the other hand, several viewers shared experiences where they were cheated on despite their partners not displaying Fiona’s warning signs.
Some partners didn’t even use social media but were still unfaithful.
The takeaway is that someone’s follow list isn’t definitive proof of cheating, but it might be something worth observing.