Exploring the dynamics of intimacy can take various forms, with some individuals leaning towards more adventurous experiences. It’s quite common for people to have unique preferences, often referred to as kinks.
The most effective method to discover mutual interests with your partner is through open communication. However, there’s one particular turn-on that might not immediately cross your mind.
It has been suggested that ‘millions of women’ are particularly drawn to a specific kink, and after understanding it, many might be inclined to try it out in the bedroom.
Fetishes range from the harmless to those requiring a plethora of specialized tools.
Some fetishes evolve beyond a mere bedroom activity, becoming a significant part of one’s lifestyle, and even forming communities around them.
The kink reportedly popular among ‘millions of women’ is known as a ‘praise kink’.
A praise kink is essentially about being aroused by receiving compliments and positive reinforcement.
According to Glamour, Jennifer Rehor, a licensed marriage and therapist, stated: “Praise kink allows someone to explicitly ask for the kinds of positive reinforcement that they crave, in order to feel desire, desired, erotic, sensual, sexual, and/or aroused.”
Imagine being showered with compliments on your intelligence, humor, and dedication during intimate moments.
After this kink gained attention online, many agreed with its appeal. One social media user commented: “I can assure you that most romance book girls would likely have this kink!”
Another shared their personal experience: “I told him. He does it more now. Best day ever!”
However, this particular ‘preference’, if you can call it that, isn’t new to everyone.
A user pointed out: “Well well well, the vanilla community is just finding out about small kinks that the kinky community has known all along.”
In a TikTok video, expert Dr. Nicole K. McNichols explained: “People who have praise kinks get turned on by their partner complimenting them.
“Praise kink exists on a continuum of course, because, I mean, who doesn’t love being told that they’re beautiful or hot or amazing in some way?”
@nicole_thesexprofessor How to tell if you have a praise kink – and ways to enjoy it if you do!! 😉🔥 #ForYou
Besides compliments, it can involve affirmations like ‘you’re doing a great job’, ‘you’re so good at that’, and ‘I’m so proud of you’.
The concept is that it fosters a sense of security and appreciation in the relationship.
While the reasons for developing a praise kink may vary, the key takeaway is the importance of communication!