A private investigator has revealed how some individuals are managing to keep their infidelities hidden, thanks to a particular feature on their smartphones.
Discovering that your significant other is unfaithful is a devastating blow in any relationship. Over the years, experts have shared their insights into the warning signs and subtle clues that might suggest someone is being unfaithful.
But what about those who manage to conceal their affairs successfully?
A private investigator has offered some insights into how cheating can happen right under someone’s nose.
Paul Evans, an investigator with I-Spy Detectives, has discussed the tactics of successful adulterers. In his analysis, Evans identified a particular smartphone app that is often manipulated into something deceitful.
He has observed an increase in the use of shared calendar apps being secretly utilized, which makes it alarmingly simple to disguise what’s actually happening.
“On the surface, it looks like a harmless dentist appointment or a work meeting, but when you dig deeper, those calendar entries are often a cover for something else,” he explained to Metro.
“We’ve uncovered cases where the same slot is used every week, always in a different location, and never with a trace of genuine work behind it.”
Evans has reportedly caught cheaters who have gone to the extent of creating ‘secret codes’ for meeting with their extramarital partners, using terms like ‘team lunch’ or ‘client call’.
These calendar apps can operate ‘without raising suspicion’ for extended periods, as partners who might check phones likely won’t ‘think twice’ about ‘work-related’ notifications.
“If your partner always seems to be ‘working late’ on Tuesdays, but there are no calls, no emails, and no explanation, it’s worth questioning,” he advised.
“Patterns are the biggest giveaway. You don’t have to go snooping, but you can start by asking direct questions. Most affairs unravel when people spot the little inconsistencies.”
In a related note, Catherine De Noire, a brothel manager, suggested that women can detect infidelity by observing their partner’s cash withdrawal habits.
“A lot of guys don’t carry enough cash,” she observed. “So then they go and withdraw money from an ATM, which is usually somewhere near the brothel or inside the brothel.”
“This is very suspicious, especially when you see that your partner withdraws a lot of money at four in the morning in this area, and the account is a shared one.”