Erin Deely thought she’d never have a traditional festive photo of her son sitting on Santa’s knee. This is because 6-year-old Brayden has autism, and busy shopping malls, bright lights, and strangers make him extremely anxious.
But thanks to the Caring Santa program organised by Autism Speaks, Brayden could meet Santa on his own terms.
The program lets kids like Brayden take their time meeting Santa, and it happens after the mall has closed, to make them feel more comfortable.
Erin told TODAY: “This was our only way. We wouldn’t get traditional Santa pictures otherwise. For years we didn’t because it was too much for Brayden.”
“They let you take all the time you need to let him warm up to Santa, so Brayden started out far away. He knew who Santa was, but he was shy.”
The Caring Santa gave Brayden plenty of space. He placed a musical snow globe on the floor and Brayden, intrigued, crawled over to play with it.
After a moment, Santa joined Brayden on the floor and played with him.
“They didn’t even talk to each other really, they just bonded and played and Brayden started to be really excited and looking at him and smiling,” said Erin.
Lisa Goring, executive vice president of Autism Speaks, said: “We know for some kids with autism, the idea of going into a mall, an environment they’re not used to, has a lot of sensory challenges.”
“[The program] is a great way for families to experience a holiday tradition.”
Erin added, “In the end, Brayden didn’t want to leave. He kept saying, ‘More Santa!'”
Malls across the US are taking part in the Caring Santa program. To find out more or reserve a slot head to the website.