Being a bridesmaid is one of the greatest milestones in a woman’s life. But it can also be a surprisingly challenging time — after all, lots of time, money, and work goes into being a bridesmaid. Fortunately, there is no need to fret, as these nine tips can help you survive the magical chaos of weddings.
#1. Study up on your duties.
This guide gives a play-by-play on everything you’re supposed to do as a bridesmaid. Read it, learn it, live it… for the next few months or so.
#2. Opt to have your meetings in person.
Group chats and email threads are great, but it will take FOREVER to get things done that way. Nothing beats direct, verbal communication.
#3. Be smart with picking out dresses.
The bride usually gets the last say on this, but a smart bridesmaid will help steer her away from the unnecessary fluff and suffocating satin. Opt for a dress that you’ll be able to wear again after the wedding.
#4. Mute your group messages.
Non-stop alerts will only drive you crazy. We’re not saying skip out on the conversation entirely, just skip the constant buzzing and alert tones.
#5. Manage your calendar like your life depends on it.
Because it probably does. Keep track of the wedding and every event that leads up to it. Number it down by days, weeks, months. Every little detail counts.
#6. Stock up on wine wipes.
Because no one likes a bloody smile. Get rid of red wine stains on your teeth and lips with these super handy wipes. You can get them here.
#7. Make sure to have ibuprofen at arm’s length at all times.
Tylenol, Advil, Midol, the whole shebang. The pressure can and will get to you, and you sure as heck won’t have 20 minutes to spare so you can meditate.
#8. Get a pair of Solemates™.
So you don’t look like a klutz when you walk on grass or gravel. These things will save your life (and your heel) from all the stress your shoes are going to give you on the wedding. Save your stilettos, save the day. Get a pair here.
#9. Befriend the other bridesmaids.
This might seem like a no-brainer, but reeeaally think about it. If you’ve ever seen the movie Bridesmaids, you’ll know that rivalry within the bridal party in no way ends well. Remember that being a bridesmaid is both a form of flattery, and an assurance of friendship. You’re all bound by the universe forever because of one bride, so make the best of it.