A past proprietor of a swingers club has shed light on a non-negotiable rule that could lead to immediate expulsion of members.
Tanya and Ashley Marum have opened up about their relationship and their experience with running a swingers club, which was initiated after a friend suggested a threesome to them.
The couple’s transparency has undoubtedly stirred discussions about the nature of swingers clubs, as the activity often carries a societal stigma.
Amid growing interest in the topic of swingers clubs, a previous owner shared insights on Reddit, inviting the public to ask pressing questions.
During the five years of managing the club, the anonymous individual outlined a stringent rule that would result in the ejection of members from the establishment.
On Reddit, they stated: “People were occasionally asked to leave. We had zero tolerance for consent violations. If enthusiastic consent wasn’t given prior to any type of advancement you were out regardless of gender or sexuality.”
“No isn’t maybe. It’s no. That was typically the biggest reason for being asked to leave or removed. It was a private members club so an annual/monthly membership was required as well as a cover charge at the door.”
The former owner added: “Most club owners also support themselves with other full-time jobs and the club pays for itself. Of course, there’s always profit in alcohol sales.”
“We had very reasonable prices on liquor sales and members got things like free towels, absorbent blankets, other laundry, toiletries like mouth wash, body wipes, hair spray etc in the bathrooms. Free snacks were provided each night as well.”
Elsewhere in the discussion thread, the former owner was asked for advice for a couple planning their first visit to a swingers club.
One commenter wrote: “First, talk to each other. Make one another’s boundaries very clear. Check out the consent policy of the club you are potentially visiting.”
“If they don’t have one posted I’d be wary. Understand that just because you’re there, you are absolutely not committed to play with anyone else. My advice to first-timers was to just visit the social area on your first visit.”
The ex-swingers club owner continued: “Don’t even think about playing. Make sure the vibe is right for you, and if it is then consider only playing with each other the next time. Take it slow, there’s no rush.”