It appears that the type of Christmas gift your partner gives you could indicate their commitment level to your relationship.
While the holiday season is often associated with joy, it can also bring stress due to overeating, overspending, and the chaos of shopping.
Considering this, it’s no shock that December 11 is known as ‘Break Up Day,’ with January being referred to as ‘National Breakup Month.’
After identifying signs that suggest your partner might be planning a breakup in the new year, dating professionals have outlined which Christmas gifts could hint at potential issues for your relationship in 2026.
Many might assume that gifts like concert tickets or vacations, which involve shared experiences, indicate future plans together. However, experts advise caution with these kinds of gifts.
Dr. Wendy Walsh, a Psychology Professor at California State University Channel Islands and expert at Datingadvice.com, suggests that ‘consumable’ gifts are a common mistake for couples.
Items like champagne, chocolates, concert tickets, and even plane tickets might signal a ‘fragile relationship,’ as these gifts are meant to be ‘used up’ together rather than kept as lasting mementos.
Moreover, if the relationship ends before the event, it can lead to an awkward situation where you either attend alone or see your partner take someone else.
Blaine Anderson, a professional matchmaker, warns that ‘overly flashy or expensive gifts’ can also be concerning, especially in the early stages of a relationship.
“Every situation is unique,” she stated, “but excessive gifts might indicate a lack of boundaries, leading to future issues. It’s not to say you should question your relationship if given a nice gift, but if a gift makes you uncomfortable, don’t ignore that feeling. Discuss it with your partner.”
Relationship experts agree that receiving no gift at all is a clear sign of a partner possibly having one foot out the door. A last-minute gift bought in haste doesn’t reflect well either.
Claire Rénier, a relationship expert at the real-life dating app happn, noted: “If your partner only buys a gift after learning you’ve gotten them something, or if they scramble to find something impersonal, it might indicate a lack of emotional investment.”
“Refusing to give or accept a gift could also signal that they don’t see the relationship as long-lasting or meaningful,” she added.
Blaine stressed the importance of exchanging small tokens during the holidays once you’ve spent considerable time with someone.
“After three dates, especially if physical intimacy is involved, not giving a gift is a red flag,” she explained, emphasizing that thoughtful gifts don’t have to be costly.
“The saying ‘it’s the thought that counts’ rings true. If someone you’re seeing doesn’t gift you anything, they likely don’t think much of you, and it might be time to move on.”
Similarly, if you invite your date to a holiday event at a friend or family member’s home, it’s a significant red flag if they arrive empty-handed.
“A good bottle of wine is expected,” Blaine noted.
She also pointed out that a partner’s behavior could be telling. Limited social interaction during such events might indicate they view the relationship as short-term.
Fortunately, experts provide a list of safe gift ideas to ease any concerns.
Blaine suggested gifts that are endearing, like a Christmas ornament or something that evokes a shared joyful memory. A ‘heartfelt card’ is also recommended.
Dr. Walsh recommended gifts that aren’t consumable, such as jewelry or items that can become heirlooms, suggesting these are solid choices for 2026.