Although Google may not always hold the definitive answers, it is often the first resource people turn to when they have a question. This is especially true when the topic is sensitive, such as queries about sex, where a quick Google search can prevent awkward moments.
Despite most individuals having received some level of sexual education in school, many queries arise that don’t have immediate expert or teacher access.
Leading the list of popular searches is the question ‘how to have sex’.
Johnston remarked on the surprising number of people searching for this basic question. She addressed it by saying, “Good sex is about communication, consent, and comfort—not following a rigid script. Start with open conversations about boundaries and desires, then take things slow and check in with your partner regularly.”
10) 8700 monthly Google searches (MGS) – What causes pain during sex in females?
9) 11000 MGS- I had sex then got my period, can I still be pregnant?
8) 11000 MGS- How to last longer during sex?
7) 12000 MGS- Why am I bleeding after sex?
6) 13000 MGS- Can you have sex while pregnant?
5) 16000 MGS- What is oral sex?
4) 18000 MGS- What is sex?
3) 20000 MGS- Light spotting after sex. Could I be pregnant?
2) 29000 MGS- How long to wait for sex after yeast infection treatment?
Sex and relationship expert Alexa Johnston has cautioned against relying solely on Google for important questions about sex, even with the abundance of queries.
Commenting on the findings, Johnston noted, “These searches reveal how universal our sexual curiosities are. Whether in New York or Nebraska, people share the same concerns. The problem is they’re often getting answers from unreliable sources instead of healthcare providers or sex educators.”
Johnston also expressed her concerns regarding the nature of these searches, noting a focus on sexual health over pleasure.
She continued, “What these search volumes reveal is both fascinating and concerning. The most striking thing is how many questions focus on sexual health concerns rather than sexual pleasure.
“This suggests we’re still struggling with fundamental sex education and open dialogue about sexual health. While it’s encouraging that people are seeking information, they shouldn’t have to rely on search engines for answers about their bodies and intimate health.
“We need more accessible, reliable resources and more comfortable conversations about this topic.”