A rising trend in the realm of sexual exploration is bringing along its own set of challenges.
Every year seems to introduce a new array of trends related to private lives, and 2025 appears to be following suit. Experts anticipate a surge in the popularity of more lifelike sex dolls, chatbot relationships, and solo polyamory, which involves having multiple simultaneous partnerships.
However, another trend gaining traction is shibari. Shibari, a Japanese form of bondage, involves rope tying and translates to ‘to tie’.
According to goop, this BDSM practice originated as an underground cultural erotic fantasy, evoking nostalgic eroticism from past eras.
Amy Winship, an individual who has embraced shibari, shared her experience with Tyla.
She emphasized the significance of consent within this fetish, stating: “Consent is really sexy and asking ‘Can I kiss you here’ and ‘Can I touch you like that’ whether you’re engaging in anything from anal sex for the first time or heavier bondage, asking first and talking it through is good to see where your line is.”
As with any evolving trend, it is crucial to be aware of the risks involved. Ensuring that both you and your partner understand the potential hazards beforehand is essential.
Engaging in sexual activities involving ropes naturally poses the risk of rope burn. This occurs when there is too much friction between the rope and the skin, as explained by Shibari Academy.
Rope burn symptoms can include redness, skin irritation, and potentially blistering or bleeding.
If the rope is tied too tightly, it may lead to circulation loss. Shibari Academy notes that the human body can generally endure reduced circulation for up to 30 minutes, but this duration can vary for individuals with health conditions like high blood pressure or diabetes.
The Cleveland Clinic identifies symptoms of circulation loss as a tingling sensation, pale or blue skin, cold extremities, numbness, and swelling.
“Nerve damage occurs due to prolonged compression, excessive force, and/or repetitive strain on nerves,” according to Shibari Academy. This is especially relevant during suspensions, which is why the academy advises against them.
Symptoms of nerve damage include tingling in a specific limb, sharp shooting pains, numbness, and weakness or difficulty moving the affected area.