If there’s one thing certain in this world, it’s that where there’s wealth, there are those who are magnetically drawn to it. Whether it’s the allure of power or simply the cash, gold diggers exist. And honestly, they deserve a nod for their commitment.
It’s easy to dismiss these pursuits as shallow, but let’s be real, dating someone significantly older can be likened to a full-time gig.
The topic of gold digging can stir up mixed feelings. Personally, I lean towards a more relaxed stance on the matter.
One woman, seeking judgment from the internet masses, shared her story on Reddit’s AITAH forum.
She recounted: “I went on a date with a guy, who I met through a dating and everything was going well until I inquired about his job.
“He mentioned he was a tradesman. Curious, I asked what type. He hesitated briefly, then said he was a carpenter.
“I delved deeper, asking whether he specialized in furniture, structural work, or roofing. Carpentry is intriguing, after all. However, he seemed uncomfortable and tried to dodge the topic.”
She continued, revealing the twist: “Eventually, he confessed that he wasn’t actually a carpenter but did it to test me.
“Turns out he’s quite affluent and prefers women to like him for his personality, not his wallet. So, he concocted a story about having a lower-paying job.”
“I called him out on his dishonesty, telling him that he failed my test of basic decency.”
Her blunt response might seem harsh, but I find myself empathizing with her standpoint. Yet, it’s clear he’s been previously misled by a gold digger, which complicates things.
She added: “After discussing with a friend, she suggested I might have overreacted and should have inquired about his past, as he likely has been cheated before. But from my experience working with well-off men, none of them resort to such antics.”
People were quick to rally behind the woman and defend carpenters, noting their potential to earn a substantial income.
One user pointed out: “Also, ‘low-paying job’? A skilled carpenter can earn a handsome salary.”
Another noted: “Union carpenters can make over $100K a year.”
Most agreed that she was not in the wrong, with one person summarizing: “‘I’d like to start this potential relationship by lying to you’ ‘I think that’s terrible and you can leave’. Good for you, NTA.”
Another chimed in: “NTA. All we know is his claim of being wealthy. What we do know for sure is he’s a liar.”
While past injuries can make one cautious, pretending to be someone else is hardly the way to foster trust. What’s your take?