Guess what? An OnlyFans creator thinks they’ve figured out why guys tend to stray in relationships. And the insights are juicy!
Did you know that around 40 percent of folks in unmarried partnerships face cheating at some point? That’s according to data from the Smith Investigation Agency. Yikes, right?
And it gets worse—apparently, a whopping 70 percent of Americans might step out on their spouse during their marriage. Stay vigilant, everyone!
So, why do men cheat? Bonnie Blue, an OnlyFans creator from Nottingham, UK, has a theory. She spilled the tea in a candid tell-all.
Bonnie, who is no stranger to headlines, claimed to have gotten up close and personal with around 122 people during a wild three-week getaway to Cancun, Mexico.
In her recent chat with The Daily Star, the 25-year-old content creator shared that she thinks men cheat because women “moan a lot,” which, according to her, makes them less attractive to their significant others.
She didn’t hold back, stating, “Women, especially as they get older, become lazy in the bedroom and think a pillow princess performance will keep their husbands happy. When in fact that’s when I find them booking me for the weekend.”
Bonnie revealed her bold theory: “If women were better in the bedroom, men wouldn’t cheat. All their nagging about pots not being done is resulting in me being bent over their kitchen worktops whilst they’re out. I used to blame the men for cheating but since being a sex worker, I blame the woman. Men look elsewhere when they’re bored, so stop boring them.”
Interestingly, Bonnie isn’t the only one trying to decode infidelity.
Earlier this year, Clara Zelleroth, a seasoned psychologist and couples therapist, shared some common excuses she hears in her sessions. While chatting with Metro, she explained that many cheaters claim the affair “just happened.”
“This decision is typically influenced by factors like alcohol or high stress, making a person more likely to cheat when the opportunity occurs,” she elaborated.
Other rationales include sexual and emotional dissatisfaction, as well as a lack of commitment. “Infidelity can also be linked to low commitment in the primary relationship,” Clara noted. “People may rationalize their actions with statements like ‘we were just about to break up’ or ‘we are not really in a committed relationship at the moment, just casually dating,’ but their partner might not see the relationship the same way,” she elaborated.
Clara pointed out that these issues often arise from poor communication, leading to mismatched perspectives between partners. She likened it to the infamous “we were on a break” scene from *Friends*.
Whether it’s bedroom boredom or communication breakdowns, it seems there’s more than meets the eye when it comes to why people cheat. What do you think?