When Elly Mae Baker, an Australian model and mother, decided to create content on OnlyFans, she never imagined that one of her subscribers would be someone she knew very well—a family member.
The revelation, however, was just the beginning of a disturbing series of events.
“It was my dad, although I hate calling him that now,” the 34-year-old exclusively shares with Kidspot, “because what father would want to watch his daughter’s racy OnlyFans videos?”
Her father not only knew about her account but had been actively watching her explicit videos and even threatened to show them to her children.
Elly recalls the painful discovery, saying, “I never got a chance to tell my dad personally that I joined the platform. He found out through another family member before I could tell him myself.
As he began to distance himself, I thought reaching out might help, but all I got was silence.”
Months later, her dad sent her a harsh text message.
“He unloaded on me, calling me names like gutter trash and a slut,” she recounts.
“But the moment he started describing the explicit details of my videos, I knew he had seen them himself. There’s no other way he could have known such specific details.”
Elly suspects, “He either subscribed himself or someone else showed him the videos using a fake username to keep their identity hidden from me.”
“I felt so many things at once—dirty, violated, betrayed. It’s been incredibly hard to cope with the fact that my own father watched those videos. It’s a betrayal I can’t seem to move past.”
The situation escalated when her father threatened to expose her career to her children.
“The thought of him showing my children the videos is absolutely horrifying and made me sick to my stomach. It’s unbelievable how he thinks he has the right to interfere and potentially harm my relationship with my children,” she expresses.
Despite the initial hesitation, Elly joined OnlyFans as a means to financially support her family.
“I saw OnlyFans as an opportunity to be more present in my children’s lives, with flexible hours to manage school runs and other activities,” she explains.
Although she first told her mother, who was shocked but eventually supportive, her father’s reaction has left their relationship beyond repair.
Elly has a piece of advice for others: “If your adult relative is content and safe, and they’re not harming anyone or doing anything illegal, just support them. My choice to support my kids through OnlyFans doesn’t make me a criminal.”
