There’s a common consensus that cheating is a major no-no in relationships, but did you know there’s such a thing as ‘micro cheating’? It turns out, this lesser-known form of infidelity might not be as detrimental as you think. Many people view a bachelor or bachelorette party as the ultimate night of liberty before they tie the knot, embracing both the delights and challenges of matrimonial life.
Recent research conducted in the UK uncovered that a surprising number of Brits engage in ‘micro-cheating’ during their stag or hen parties. And while this revelation might seem harsh to the unsuspecting partner, some experts believe that this kind of infidelity isn’t all that terrible. Ever heard of ‘micro cheating’?
A study by illicitencounters.com found a whopping 84 percent of Brits have indulged in ‘micro-cheating’ while celebrating their soon-to-be marriage. So, what exactly does ‘micro cheating’ entail? This term refers to “Someone who engages in subtle actions that demonstrate interest in someone outside of their own relationship.” Common examples include harmless flirting or buying someone a drink.
Jessica Leoni, a sex and relationships expert, points out that such behaviors often occur during trips abroad. She mentions, “Mixing sun, sea, and alcohol can often be a recipe for disaster.” She explains that being far from home and away from familiar eyes can boost people’s confidence, making them appear more attractive to others. However, Leoni argues that as long as these actions don’t evolve into full-blown cheating, it shouldn’t be a significant concern.
Jessica elaborates, “Stags and hens—or any group trips—are a break from the everyday stresses, and as long as it doesn’t progress to physical intimacy, this sort of behavior shouldn’t bother their partners back home.”
The study also showed that nearly half of the participants eventually confessed their ‘micro-cheating’ to their partners. Jessica added, “Micro-cheating is something to be aware of, but some harmless flirting abroad on the stag or hen shouldn’t ruin the wedding.”
She continued, “Being abroad and out of the routine also makes people feel more liberated, which can lead to cheating.” With places like Magaluf known for their boozy escapades and popular among stag and hen parties, it’s no surprise it’s also a hotspot for ‘micro-cheating’.