29-year-old Jenna Kutcher is a Wisconsin-native photographer.
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She’s also been married for the past 10 years to fitness guru, Drew Kutcher, who she’s dubbed ‘Mister Six Pack.’
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Jenna posts photos of her everyday life with Drew on her Instagram page.
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However, not all of the comments online are nice. Whenever she posts a swimsuit photo, internet trolls leap at the opportunity to body shame Jenna.
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One comment in particular took aim at the fact ‘they couldn’t believe [she] had managed to land a guy as good looking’ as her husband.
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Jenna explained how that message in particular affected her confidence and brought up past insecurities.
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In the caption, she wrote: “Part of my insecurity with my body has stemmed from being married to Mr Six-Pack himself. Why should I, a curvy girl, get him? I feel unworthy, and when I write narratives in my head that because I am not thin, I don’t deserve him.”
“This man has embraced every curve, every dimple, pound and pimple for the last ten years and has always reminded me that I’m beautiful even when my inner dialogue doesn’t match (and when I haven’t showered in days.).”
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“So yes, my thighs kiss, my arms are big, and my bum is bumpy but there is just more of me for him to love and I chose the man that could handle alllll that (and so much more!).”
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In an interview with Yahoo Lifestyle, Jenna shared that her struggle to love her body started at a young age when she was a gymnast.
“I think deep down, as women, our biggest fear is that we aren’t enough, that our bodies are broken,” she shared.
Jenna says Drew played a big role in helping her get over her past insecurities.
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“I think that he helps me, he sees me beautiful on the days when I don’t shower or change out of my high school sweatpants, which, let’s be honest, is most days. And he reminds me of my worth and beauty. But beyond that, I’ve had to really find that within.”
“I don’t think it’s safe or healthy to rely on someone else for acceptance and so, as I’ve grown my empire of a business, I’ve had to learn how to put myself first so that I can pour into others.”