An adult film star has shared insights into the most common mistakes men make when it comes to intimacy.
Alix Lynx has been in the adult entertainment industry for over a decade, gaining significant experience through her work on OnlyFans and various studio productions.
She reportedly earns a substantial five-figure sum each month by creating personalized content, ranging from intimate experiences to unconventional requests, such as bouncing on balloons or soaking in a tub filled with Jell-O.
Lynx is open about disclosing industry secrets and expressing her views on sexual experiences.
Recently, she discussed the top three errors men often commit during intimate encounters.
According to her, the most significant mistake is neglecting the passionate moments that partners should enjoy before diving into the act.
“Skipping foreplay is the number one mistake men make in bed,” Lynx revealed to IGV. “Going too fast and just rushing straight into it.
“Skipping kissing, and just ripping your clothes off can be hot sometimes, but rarely. Like, c’mon, you’re really just gonna go for it immediately?”
She emphasized that women generally require time to become aroused and ready for intimacy.
“Women need to be warmed up,” Lynx elaborated. “It’s like a DJ set, you gotta get the crowd going before you make the drop.
“Men skip foreplay, and they need to realise it makes a world of difference. I know it’s a lot easier for dudes to get off, but we’re wired so differently. We need time, you need to take things slow.”
Her second tip focuses on the importance of personal hygiene and cleanliness, though she acknowledged that this issue is less common.
“Not grooming and being clean is the second biggest mistake men make,” Lynx stated. “It just lacks self-awareness. This isn’t super common, but it’s definitely something I’ve noticed. Like, are you even taking care of yourself? Are you grooming?
“Are you just letting everything go and not even thinking about it? Seriously, dude – take a damn shower. If you just got back from the gym, wash your balls.”
Lastly, she pointed out that men often assume all women respond in the same way.
“I think going on autopilot, and not taking your time to feel out what’s working and what’s not, is a huge no-no.
“Just assuming, oh, this is gonna work because it worked last time. Every woman is different, you know? You’ve gotta talk and you have to communicate,” Lynx concluded.