Comedian Nikki Glaser has revealed her rare fetish after claiming she lets her boyfriend sleep with other women – with one strict rule at the centre of the arrangement.
Sexual preferences and fantasies can take many forms, and some couples find that unconventional boundaries work for them.
For most monogamous relationships, anything resembling cheating is a hard no. But Nikki Glaser has explained why, in her case, her boyfriend being intimate with other women can actually be a turn-on.
Glaser, who became the first solo female host of the Golden Globe Awards in 2025, is dating producer Chris Convy. She’s previously described their relationship as being “on-and-off” since 2013.
She’s even suggested she’d be fine with a future husband sleeping with other people — but only under one clear condition.
Speaking to Gwyneth Paltrow, host of the Goop podcast, the comedian said:
“I wouldn’t mind if my boyfriend were to fool around with other women.”
When Paltrow asked whether that had already happened, Glaser replied:
“Yeah, like year ago there was a couple of times.”
However, she said there’s a firm boundary that has to be respected:
“I don’t mind as long as the girl knows he’s not going leave me for her.”
Glaser went on to explain that the sense of “competition” is part of what appeals to her — the idea that her partner could leave, which she says motivates her to “step up” her effort.
She also framed it as simple attraction and curiosity, adding:
“I also think he’s hot, and I’m like try this out,” Glaser said.
But this isn’t the first time she’s spoken publicly about the fetish, which she’s said is sometimes referred to as being into a “hot husband” dynamic.
Nikki Glaser says her fetish of enjoying her PARTNER fool around with other women had one condition and that she enjoyed the competition because it makes her “want to step it up”
“As long as she knows he’ll not leave me for her, I don’t mind” pic.twitter.com/5G12e67zoK
— Blaise ⛧ (@wydblaise) May 16, 2026
On Alex Cooper’s Call Her Daddy podcast, she also clarified that the arrangement isn’t something she wants to participate in herself.
“It’s not a two-way-street,” she noted.
Glaser said:
“I’m not someone who likes to hook up when I’m in a relationship. I don’t really care about that. But I don’t care if someone else were to. In fact, I kind of like it.”
She also said that discussing Convy’s dating history can function as part of their sexual build-up.
“It would make me horny to think about him doing that with other girls,” she said, “So, I’d ask about all of his girlfriends or anyone he had hooked up with, all the details about it and I would get revved up talking about it.”